Now when I wrote the previous post titled “how to make out with a girl”, originally I was doing it just for the fun of it. Although I did end up actually saying some truths in it.
What I didn’t realize until now is how much of a response that post would get. I didn’t think much of it, but now I wonder.
In discussing how I’d been thinking of and then done the previous post for some humor on how to make out with a girl, I had some friends and family tell me that I should mention things that I didn’t. Apparently I forgot to give some ‘important’ instructions in my previous post about making out with a girl.
First of all I was told that I should mention that you should keep your hands on top of the girls clothes, which I didn’t mention because I didn’t think of it at the time. But to be respectful to the girl and well to each other if you really like each other, you should try to keep your hands on top of the clothes.
It was also mentioned that I should remind guys and I think this applies to girls as well here that they should show the girl respect. The girl should also show the guy respect – the girl/guy shouldn’t be ‘used’ just for making out is what I was told to mention here by others.
Also when I mentioned previously to ask your buddy for pointers on making out, I didn’t mean for you to literally practice with them. I just thought that maybe guys could share pointers or tips with each other like for example, if one guy’s never kissed, but his friend has – ask the experienced kisser for pointers – it would make sense, right. Of course, I don’t know since I am a girl.
In retrospect, thinking further about giving the example of watching “The Little Mermaid” for an example of kissing, if you were seriously wanting an example, I wouldn’t really use that. I mean really, the prince seems to take forever and have a hard time figuring out how to kiss Ariel in that movie. So, maybe that wasn’t the best example lol ;).
Perhaps watching the end of “Never Been Kissed” with Drew Barrymore would have been a better example for that. That is one of my personal favorite kisses in a movie or the kiss in the movie “The Notebook”, of course these are what some of you guys would consider chic flicks so you probably wouldn’t want to watch them anyway.
Oh and one other thing that was pointed out to me is that I said in my previous post that you could whisper ‘sweet nothings’ in her ear. I apparently may have failed to define what ‘sweet nothings’ are – I would assume that most of you know what they are, but if you don’t know, here’s some examples.
Some examples of ‘sweet nothings’ are tell her how pretty, beautiful, or cute she looks. Tell her how pretty her eyes are then she would respond by looking at you and then when she was facing you, it would be the perfect time to go in for the kiss. Tell her how you like her hair, her cute outfit or something like that – those would be examples of ‘sweet nothings’ to whisper in her ear.
Other than that, I have no other suggestions or ‘instructions’ to add here. Like I mentioned previously, I still think the best way to make out or know how to make out with a guy or girl is to have personal, hands on experience with it.
I may have some truths or little things here and there that can help, but experiencing it is where you will really learn about it the most.
So, the only other thing I can think of is to get someone to practice with and seeing as how I’m not going to offer myself for practice here *giggles* (that was for you, Phil) ;). The only thing to do is go out with a girl or guy to experience and learn for yourself.
Edited to add here that I’ve thought of some more possible pointers etc. that I’ll be writing soon so stay tuned for more kissing/make out tips 😉 lol.